Safety Tips

Your safety is our top priority. Follow these tips to protect yourself while meeting new people.

Online Safety

  • Protect your personal information - Don't share your home address, workplace, or financial details until you've built trust.
  • Keep conversations on the app - Use our messaging system until you feel comfortable sharing other contact details.
  • Be wary of red flags - Watch out for people who ask for money, make you feel uncomfortable, or pressure you.
  • Do your research - Search for them on social media to verify they are who they say they are.

Meeting in Person

  • Meet in public - Choose a busy café, restaurant, or public space for your first few dates.
  • Tell someone - Let a friend or family member know where you're going and who you're meeting.
  • Arrange your own transport - Don't rely on your date for a ride, especially on the first meeting.
  • Stay sober - Keep a clear head by limiting alcohol consumption.
  • Trust your instincts - If something feels wrong, leave. Your safety comes first.

Spotting Scams

Be cautious if someone:

  • Asks for money or financial help
  • Claims to be in an emergency shortly after matching
  • Avoids video calls or meeting in person
  • Has inconsistent stories or profile information
  • Asks you to move to another platform quickly

Need Help?

If you encounter suspicious behavior or feel unsafe, please report it immediately.

Emergency Resources

  • UK Emergency: 999
  • National Domestic Abuse Helpline: 0808 2000 247
  • Victim Support: 0808 168 9111